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Why don’t men ever wear veils, or cover their faces, unless they’re robbing a bank or some such thing? Why are women taught to see themselves as beautiful when they are hiding, covered or veiled? Let the men wear veils for awhile and you’ll see how stupid it really looks. Oh, right, men would never DO anything that made them look fragile, weak and powerless, so never mind.
Photo: Sara Outeiro
Are there any novels for men, where the main character (male from a small town) weeps, is devastated by a breakup, runs away to open a bookstore that he conveniently inherits from a long lost relative, where he meets the love of his life and they live happily ever after?
Are there any novels for men that have children in them, other than the one’s they are hired to rescue, or kill?
Are there any novels for men that deal with caring for parents, or sick spouses, or kids?
Are there any novels for men where a woman is the hero?
Are there any novels for men where they are RESCUED by a woman?
Are there any novels for men where they are hunted, and kept in a basement for a year, constantly abused and tortured, then murdered, by a woman?
Are there any novels for men where they defer to women?
Are there any novels for men where men are made to look like weaklings, victims, pathetic, sad, lonely, inept, terrified human beings?
Are there any novels for men where they talk about how fat they are, talk about their thighs and body image, dieting, their nails, hair or the clothes they wear?
Are there any novels for men that are long boring sagas about family life and relationships?
Are there any books for men where the men are afraid to go out at night? Afraid to be in their house alone?
You know, I could go on and on and on and on but where would these books be shelved in a bookstore? Nowhere, that’s where, because they don’t exist.
We are constantly conditioned and brainwashed by our culture, to be something we they want us to be. Women never have a chance to find out who they are or what they can be.
The post was about a device men came up with to open doors to get at women. The comments after the story (on Bored Panda) and some of the comments on my blog were about what the girl did, what her parents did, but that wasn’t the point. That’s like asking the girl what she was wearing when she was raped. It’s NOT ABOUT WHAT THE GIRL DID. It’s about WHAT MEN DO TO GET AT WOMEN.
It’s a cultural manipulation to always place the blame on the female. No matter what men do, it’s always something the female did that made it happen, or allowed it to happen. And that is always the way men deflect the violence they do against us.
THERE IS A DEVICE TO OPEN DOORS TO GET INTO ROOMS WHERE WOMEN ARE ALONE. AND THAT’S THE POINT. We have to stop asking questions about what the woman did and start to LOOK AT WHAT MEN ARE DOING TO US.
The fact that some people said her parents shouldn’t have left her alone, she shouldn’t have opened the door, and all the rest, are immaterial when it comes to the fact that A MAN WAS BREAKING INTO HER ROOM.
No one said anything about that. We have been trained to look at what the woman did, whether she has been beaten or murdered. It’s always something she did.
It’s not. IT’S BECAUSE MEN BEAT, RAPE AND KILL FEMALES. PERIOD. No one asked why he was there, who he was, was he caught, where his parents were, or anything else. Not a single question ABOUT HIM.
Women are prisoners, needing to be guarded against men at every age, no matter where we are. Females are NEVER SAFE and they are always blamed for what is DONE TO THEM.
The article was about a device made to open doors. But everyone talked about the 15 year old girl.
Although one persons said that if anyone sees the wire to pull it and maybe break his finger.
Until our attitudes change and we face the fact that the men who do the violence are never mentioned, blamed or part of the problem, women will continue to be blamed for what men do to them.
Men have developed the perfect system to be violent against women and get away with it by blaming the women. It’s really sick and evil.
she made it farther
than she had the last four times
at least she was in the building
but she just couldn’t do it
she did love him
was the price one paid
so she got up
and skipped away
heading for sunny days
and no strings
Photo: Nina Hill
she never stopped fighting back
but all men wanted to hear
were the fluttering wings of butterflies
and her SILENCE
Photo: Isabella Mariana
A lot of people said that Jordan wasn’t like “other” girls. They were wrong. A lot of “girls” were simply afraid to be like Jordan, that’s all. The pressure to conform is so punishing, that many females decide just to submit. It won’t protect them, but they think it will.
One has to follow the rules in their hearts. Not everyone wants to be a rock start. Seems as if a lot of women want to pose and look weird, in pictures on free sites people can use for their blogs, but that’s their business and the rules they follow, I guess.
The point is, we should be able to be who we are. Free, wild things, rocking or doing street art or anything else. The RESTRICTIONS that BIND, CONTROL and KILL US, because of male dominance, destroy ALL OF OUR LIVES.
I’ve been reading all the things women do to NOT BE NOTICED, out of fear. FEAR, FEAR, FEAR. MEN TERRIFY WOMEN EVERYDAY IN EVERY WAY. How is that a way to live?
It’s not. Not at all.
There’s a fabulous new movie on NETFLIX, called MOXIE. I loved it. My daughter called and said, “It’s driving me crazy because when we did things like that, people stayed AWAY from us because they were afraid. Where was all the support those girls got in the movie?”
She was right, but we did it anyway.
Males make the world an ugly and dangerous place. Think about the women demonstrating in front of college dorms, carrying mattresses, to try and get people to understand how many of them are raped/gang raped. and to STOP IT FROM HAPPENING.
Think about it and STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR MALE BEHAVIOR. Your daughters are coming home, dropping out and not saying anything. So many females drop out and never say why.
The lists of things women HAVE TO DO to try and stay safe everywhere they go is sickening. How many men have to text saying: TEXT/CALL ME THE MINUTE YOU GET HOME. A friend of mine gets up every morning and talks to me the entire time I walk, so she knows that I’m okay and no one is bothering me, or running over me. EVERY SINGLE DAY. THE WHOLE TIME I WALK. So she knows I’m safe. How many men have to do that?
Men need to stop other men from hurting us. We can’t stop them. Not unless the law changes and states that we can kill them and walk away. But, oh, wait, women who kill men who have been beating them for YEARS, get life in prison. Men who MURDER THEIR WIVES are out in six months. So, never mind. It would be nice if women could make their own laws, but we have to live with the ones men make to protect themselves and do whatever they want to do…to us.
Men can’t understand what it’s like to live the way we do. They can never “get it.” Unless, they go to jail. Then some of them get it. They should all have to spend time there…say six months. Maybe they would understand then. Maybe not. It couldn’t hurt to try it.
And for the men who have daughters they actually love, or care about…think of the dangerous world SHE lives in, because of all of you.
Photo: Harry Shelton
I have no idea who this woman is. I’m putting her on my blog because she looks normal. She isn’t half dressed, her eyes are open and she doesn’t look as if she’s having a religious experience. She looks REAL and beautiful. She looks comfortable in her body and in herself. I’m so sick of seeing women posing and posturing.
Photographs inspire me, so I go through some of them on line to get new ideas, but the pictures of women touching their faces, their arms over their heads, partially naked are just disgusting. Selling themselves to the male (or female) gaze, looking weak and vulnerable. Hiding in shadows or standing in front of windows, it just makes me sick. We work so hard to make women look strong and intelligent, and then I see so many pictures where they look ridiculous (yes, that is my opinion).
When I saw this woman, I was so happy. She looks as if she could function in the world, be a force, full of intelligence and personal power. I love it. It’s refreshing and positive. She’s not a thing, she’s a real person.
Often times women use their bodies to survive. They pose and pout and look like children or easy marks. It makes me sad. Really sad. Women have been taught those things. Those looks SELL things, but they are demeaning when flashed across the screen and I wonder if their family album, the one they show their kids, would be full of those shots.
Men will sometimes have their hands above their heads to show off their abs. It’s bragging, not inviting. They don’t touch their faces, close their eyes and pose. They show strength, not weakness.
I’m sick of seeing posing and weak looking females. I find the above photo a breath of fresh air and that’s why she’s on my blog.
Photo: Polinatan Kilevitgh