We need more love in the world. We need more kindness. We will never love everyone. It’s not possible, but I think we can be a bit more kind and polite. No one can even define what love means. Ask the billions of people who are divorced about their definitions.
We can be kind to strangers, without loving them. We don’t have to love people to open a door for them. Love isn’t something everyone can do, or give, but kindness is. Being polite doesn’t carry any meaning and it’s short term. We can’t love everyone, and not everyone wants to be loved by others. That’s an IMPORTANT point. Many people do not want someone’s love, or attention. Kindness is a different thing, but even then, people have to be careful not to intrude or over step their bounds. Every word has its own definition.
We need to be more realistic about what is possible. Loving everyone is not possible. It never was and never will be. We can’t even protect children from their parents. We can’t actually DO anything, to stop the hatred and violence that is everywhere, so loving everyone is a joke.
We need to come up with better solutions and get real, if we truly want things to change. We need to forget about loving each other and try for something that’s possible. Being polite. Being kind. And even then…what will we do with those who are filled with hatred and violence? Those who only want power over others and more for themselves?
Look at it this way. When someone is simply kind, it can make the news, because it’s that rare. Think about that. An act of kindness can be newsworthy, in a world where hatred and violence are the norm.
We need to forget about love and just try to be more polite until we can think of something better.
And, by the way, the cat in the picture could take the dog in a second. The cat has all the power. All she has to do is change her mind about being civil, and the dog’s toast. Just like in human life. Exactly like in human life. It’s not the one who has the most toys who wins, it’s the one who has the most power over us.