Okay so…

some creepy guy just wrote something disgusting on my blog.  I went back and erased every comment from the pervert and my answers to him..I only hope I got them all.  I think it’s a shame that we have to see garbage like this.  I didn’t know he was a creep because, up until today,  he just made regular comments…but that’s just it…you can’t tell when guys like that are around until they say something that lets you know just how disgusting they are.  So, you miserable CREEP, if you are reading this…STAY OFF MY BLOG.

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42 Responses to Okay so…

  1. AB says:

    Is there a blocking mechanism on wordpress…

    • You know, I think there might be. If he returns to my blog I will delete him and report him to WordPress. Thank you for reminding me about that.

      • AB says:

        Best of luck, my humble view is that WordPress does a marvellous job of keeping spammers at bay I am sure they will take care of him..stay blessed!

      • Thank you. I agree, I think they do a great job. This is the first time it has happened and I have been blogging for over a year. I really appreciate your support. Thank you again.

  2. Brenda says:

    Oh, I am so sad that happened. Hugs, Brenda

  3. Rivera says:

    There should be some sort procedure that this can be reported; that he not be allowed on the entire WordPress site in the future.

  4. laurie27wsmith says:

    It wasn’t me then?

    • LOL No, my friend it wasn’t you. Really creepy guy, believe me.

      • laurie27wsmith says:

        Phew! I thought to myself, Laurie what have you been commenting on lately? Lol.

      • It’s just too bad that women are never safe, even on their blogs. I don’t think men can ever understand what it’s like to never be able to trust your surroundings or the man standing next to you or coming toward you. Teachers, cops, any male is suspect. You can’t count on your daughters safety no matter where they are and when boys are young they are in danger as well. Our society and it’s laws are set up to not only allow men to do as they like, but it protects them after they do it. Men write the laws, pass them, interpret them and they do it all for their own benefit. It sucks, more than you can ever know. It’s a living hell and a war zone. Women are prisoners…allowed out at their own risk and if they stay in, they are still at risk from the men in their lives and strangers as well. Sometimes I get so enraged that I feel as if I will burst into flames, sword in hand and slowly, one at a time. go after them and write my own laws. One can only dream.

  5. Heartafire says:

    I once received the most despicable and threatening post! It was disgusting. Can’t wordpress do something about this abuse?

    • I think they can, but I’m not positive. I will report the guy if he returns and I will post his address and icon and at least that will warn other women to get rid of him immediately. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Those people really are disgusting.

  6. ksbeth says:

    i am so sorry this happened to you. the trolls are under bridges everywhere it seems. i am also hopeful that there is a way to block and report this person.

    • I think there is something set up for that and, as I mentioned to a couple of others, if the creep returns, I will report him to WP. It’s too bad things like this happen but the good thing is, it doesn’t happen a lot. This is the first time I’ve had someone be disgusting and I hope it’s the last. Thank you. If the guy returns I’ll post who he is.

  7. Harbin77 says:

    Sorry you having this problem. I have had to go in and stop following to get them of my list and I do get tired of the spam i get but I just delete them and they eventuality stop sending them. Hope you can get rid of them good luck and God bless. Jim

    • Thank you so much. I’m hoping he doesn’t return and if he does, I will post his address and icon and report him to WordPress. Thank you again. I truly appreciate your support. Thank you again.

  8. The nerve of some people. Good for you for cleaning all traces of him off your site. He will read this and should be smart enough to know it is he you are speaking of and should slink off with his tail between his legs without creating any further problem.

    • It would certainly be in his best interest to do so. At least if he doesn’t want his site all over WP. I’m glad you read it before I erased it so you know what he said. Thank you, as always.

  9. I’m sorry that happened to you. It happened to me as well a long time ago…to the point that I closed my old blog and started all over. I wouldn’t do that again (start all over)…but I do know how you feel.

  10. words4jp says:

    I am sorry this happened. There are creeps out there. Lots.

  11. Bling! This has happened to me and I blacklist them. I can’t stand this behavior. It’s so inappropriate. I’m glad you said something about this because it’s just not ok with me either.

    • How did you do it? I want to do that. He just pressed “like” on one of my posts.

      • OMG I commented on your long comment so you can email me if you need to! that is awful bling.
        First turn your moderate all comments. Do not let anyone post to your blog without approval. Go to your comments and put his name in there it will pull up all comments by this person. first click spam so they all go to spam. Then go to spam and delete them. That way you will not see them. There is a spot on discussions at the bottom where you can blacklist someone. You enter their name, their email, their blog name and first and last name. Then it will stop them from posting. Unfortunately you cannot stop someone from liking your blog other then telling them flat out to stop. I will send more.

  12. pndrgn99 says:

    First and foremost I am so very sorry this happened to. You. I spent almost 20 years working with prisoners to rehabilitate men responsible for Violent crime. Violent crime doesn’t have to mean physical contact, as you know there is emotional and mental abuse as well. Holding people accountable is incredibly important to stopping this kind of thing. Clearly what works for you is most important. But just so you know, the ISP has a record on their server of anything that was communicated to you and harassment on a blog is no different than harassment on a phone call legally so you can involve the authorities and take action. Whatever you choose to do you have my support to whatever degree I cannot Brennick comfort I am available please feel free to write me a note and vent I won’t take it personally if you need to rant about men. I can also promise you I will never turn out to be a complete moron. Again my regrets, as a father of two daughters I have had to deal with this thing in the past although the girls are now women and can take care of themselves, it doesn’t hurt that they know I’m here and offer unconditional support. Betrayal sucks.
    Alex

  13. Judy says:

    So sorry that this happened to you. It leaves a nasty taste in your mouth doesn’t it? I really don’t know why people do such things. They mustn’t have much to do in their lives. There is a tab you can click on to block the person. cheers Judy 🙂

    • And…up until today he was still writing and pressing “like.” I’ve heard from other women that they have had much worse happen to them. Yes, there are things that one can do to BLACKLIST perverts like that. Really disgusting. It’s such a shame that bad and hateful people like that can ruin things for so many others. I really appreciate your support. Thank you so very much.

  14. These people will not last on Word Press. They are counterproductive. Yes, they may hurt you, but learn something from this incident. Be discerning. with great respect, Eddie

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